Margarita Politis is a Narcissistic Abuse Specialist and creator of the ROAR Healing Method — guiding women to rebuild self-trust through subconscious and nervous system healing.

Meet Your Guide

If you constantly feel confused, blamed, or like you're “the problem,” you're not alone.


This quiz will help you understand what may really be happening.

Could this relationship be affecting you more than you realise?


Trusted by thousands of women beginning their healing journey.

Not sure where you are in your healing journey yet?

Take the 2-Minute Clarity Quiz to Identify Hidden Manipulation and Gaslighting.

 Conversations somehow become your fault
 You replay interactions trying to understand what happened
 You feel like you're walking on eggshells
 You doubt your own memory or judgement
 You feel emotionally drained after interactions

Does this feel familiar? 

 Healing from narcissistic abuse requires more than simply understanding what happened.

It involves calming the nervous system, releasing trauma patterns created by manipulation, and rebuilding trust in your instincts and identity.

Inside ROAR, healing is supported through an integrated trauma-informed approach combining several powerful modalities.

My work is trauma-informed and integrates subconscious processes, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing.

This allows for deep, lasting transformation beyond surface-level understanding alone.

The ROAR Healing Method

Brainspotting Trauma Processing

Guided Healing Program


 RTT Belief Transformation



Releasing deeply held beliefs created through manipulation or childhood conditioning.



Accessing and releasing trauma stored in the nervous system.

Somatic Nervous System Healing

Regulating the body so safety and emotional stability can return.

Guided Integration

Helping women rebuild identity, boundaries, and confidence.

This is where it begins

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If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, blamed, or questioning your own memory, you’re not imagining things. Narcissistic abuse works by slowly distorting your sense of reality and eroding your confidence until you begin doubting yourself.

I understand this world deeply. I’ve lived through the manipulation, the love-bombing, and the quiet shame that follows narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma. That experience led me to dedicate my work to helping survivors understand what happened to them and reclaim their sense of clarity and self-trust.

Trauma-informed support for women, integrating RTT and nervous system work.  Through trauma-informed coaching, RTT therapy, and somatic healing tools, I guide survivors to unravel the patterns of manipulation, reconnect with their inner safety, and rebuild their lives with stronger boundaries, confidence, and self-belief.

Helping survivors worldwide understand and recover from narcissistic abuse.  

meet Margarita 

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Margarita speaks powerfully on narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, childhood trauma, and the recovery journey that follows. Her talks are designed to bring language to what survivors have lived through, helping audiences understand the patterns of abuse, the impact on the nervous system, and the path toward healing.



Whether speaking to community groups, podcasts, workplaces, or events, Margarita brings lived insight, deep understanding, and a clear message of recovery, empowerment, and self-trust.


Speaking & Workshops

If you’re ready, this is where the real work begins.



Narcissistic abuse and coercive control

Gaslighting and psychological manipulation

Childhood trauma and repeated toxic patterns

Rebuilding self-trust after abuse

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Are you ready to thrive?



• constantly questioning your memory after conversations
• feeling blamed for things you didn’t do
• walking on eggshells around someone
• replaying conversations trying to understand what happened
• feeling like you’ve lost your confidence or sense of self

Then end with:

You’re not imagining it — and you’re not alone.

If this relationship has left you feeling confused or doubting yourself, you may recognise this:

Luxury Retreat Experience

A restorative healing retreat designed for women ready to step away, go deeper, and reconnect with themselves in a safe, beautiful setting.

The ROAR Healing Immersion

Private 1:1 Deep Healing


ROAR Elite Transformation

Guided Healing Program


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A guided healing journey to understand abuse patterns, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild trust in yourself.



Personalised trauma recovery support using RTT, brainspotting, and somatic healing to release trauma bonds and restore your sense of self.

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Margarita brought a refreshing and deeply impactful approach to our workplace wellbeing programme. Her Positive Psychology sessions didn’t just boost morale—they shifted how our team sees stress, success, and each other. Her ability to combine lived empathy with science-backed tools was unlike anything we’ve experienced. Team members left feeling seen, supported, and empowered with practical ways to lead with calm under pressure. It’s rare to find a facilitator who can balance emotional safety with professional development so seamlessly. I wouldn’t hesitate to bring her back.

"Working with Margarita changed everything. I came into her program burned out and running on empty. Within weeks, I not only felt calm and in control again, but my leadership presence completely shifted. My team now describes me as composed, grounded, and unshakable under pressure. Margarita doesn’t just teach resilience — she helps you embody it in a way that others can feel the moment you walk into the room."

Stories of Healing

My time with Margarita was perhaps one of the most strategically directed outcomes. It help me significantly to deal with those area's that needed to be let go and enable the ability to find the positive learnings. Margarita helped me arrive to a point where I could see the moment, and either celebrate or learn something fresh. 
I highly recommend the process, So here's my challenge to whoever is reading this. If you're prepared to the journey to finding the best version of you, you'll find a deeply rewarding experience in who you authentically are.